Mary Mazzarello was very simple, but very, very wise. These are quotes from some of her letters.
To be cheerful we must go ahead in simplicity,
not looking for satisfaction,
either from people or from the things of this world.
Think only of doing your duty well for the love of Jesus
and don’t think of anything else. If you are humble, you will have confidence in Him.
He will do the rest.
So don’t keep crying for nothing.
Remember the time for acting like a child has passed.
You must be sensible and give good example.
Now that I gave you that intense reading yesterday, here are a few different facts about St. Mary Mazzarello:
1.) When Mary would work in the field as a child, she worked so quickly and so fervently that she outproduced all the men her dad had hired to work in the field! Her dad had to ask her to slow down to boost morale!
2.) When Mary moved far away from her church, too far for her to go daily, she would look out her window and see the lights in the church and pray to Jesus from the window.
3.) Her childhood friend, Petronilla, entered as a Sister and the two remained close.
4.) Mary never thought herself worthy of being the Superior of the order. She would ask Don Bosco when the Superior would be sent. It seemed everyone knew Mary was a Saint…except Mary!
5.) Mary was not perfect; she did not have an extensive education and she had quite a personality! But she always acted with kindness and grace.
6.) After meeting Don Bosco she told one of her Sisters that he was a saint.
7.) We celebrate her feast on May 13, but she actually died May 14!
8.) She and her Sisters endured a lot of hardship, especially in the beginning! There was a college the people of Mornese worked tirelessly to build for a boys school. It was instead turned into a girls school and the Sisters were asked to staff it – the people were very upset! But Mary kept her Sisters’ spirits high!
9.) When the second group of missionary Sisters were leaving for a very long journey to the train station, Mary set out hours after them to surprise them and see them off. Not only did she beat them there, she already had their tickets bought!
10.) Mary uses the following words many, many times in her correspondence with the Sisters: courage, cheerful, love; We will meet in the heart of Jesus!
Happy feast day!
Get to know Mary Mazzarello through the places she lived. Check out this presentation (it will open full in the window!)
St Mary Domenica Mazzarello was born in Mornese, Alessandria, Italy on May 9, 1837 to hardworking parents. Her family was not of abundant means, so each day brought with it long days in the vineyards, carefully tending to the delicate vines in the glaring sun.
Mary Mazzarello was know for her cheerful spirit and willingness to help others, even at a cost to herself. She was not without a temper, though! Her quick wit could often turn sour when vexed, and controlling her temper was something, like Don Bosco, she would have to work at all of her life.
When she was fifteen she the Association of the Daughters of Mary Immaculate, run by her parish priest, Father Pestarino; it was a precursor to the founding of the Salesian Sisters.
The Daughters were known for their charitable works and Mary soon set herself apart for her sound judgment, dedication, joy, and love of the young. Wherever she want the village children were drawn to her like a magnet, eager to hear her jokes and stories, or to ask her a multitude of questions.
When she was 23 a typhoid epidemic hit Morenese and villagers started rapidly dying. Soon her uncle and aunt were taken ill and Mary, typical of her generous nature, volunteered to care for them and their many children.
After a week under her loving care they were healed, but when she returned home Mary became ill with the very sickness that she healed and was brought to the brink of death. She received the last rites of the Church and recovered, but the illness left her weak. The strength which had formerly sustained her in the fields was no more. Mary was now thin and frail; a shell of her formerly robust self.
Her practicality leads her to find other means to sustain herself, so she took an apprenticeship with the town seamstress and worked diligently at the craft. Like Don Bosco, the skills which she learned in her youth she was later able to pass onto those who would come after her. Unbeknownst to Mary, God setting the groundwork for the foundation of a new religious community with her as its co-foundress.
After she recovered from her illness, in the month of October, Mary was walking in her village and was suddenly astounded to see before her a large building with a courtyard and many girls playing and laughing. A voice, immeasurably majestic and kind said to her, “I entrust them to you.”
At the same time St John Bosco had a similar experience where he was shown a group of girls abandoned in a courtyard. The same voice said to him, “These are my daughters; take care of them.”
The Holy Spirit was preparing St Mary Mazzarello and St John Bosco’s hearts to act upon their inspiration to found a society to care for young girls, just as the Salesian priest and brothers cared for young boys.
Fifteen young women now comprised the Daughters of Mary Immaculate. Fr Pestarino had busied himself with training them in the spiritual life and managed to secure a place for some of them to live in community, thus was the beginning of religious life in Mornese.
The Daughters took in a few young girls and housed them, schooling them in the faith and handing down to them their knowledge of dress making. Their work was in high demand because of the great attention which Mary paid to detail, insisting that nothing be done half heartedly, and she was always perfectly just, returning all of the unused materials to their customers.
Life was difficult and full of sacrifices; they would often have to beg for food and scrounge for wood and sticks for the fire. They were cold in the winter, and often hungry, yet they all accepted it with a cheerful spirit, sharing what they could with the young girls who would come to them for aid.
Don Bosco was told of the Daughters by Fr Pestarino, who himself was training as a Salesian under the saint. Considering his vision of the young girls, Don Bosco felt an interior impulse to meet with them. He went to Mornese with his boy band under the guise of raising funds for his Oratory, but his true intention was to investigate the possibility of founding a female counterpart of the Salesian Sisters from the Daughters of Mary Immaculate.
In 1867, after meeting with them and receiving the Daughter’s enthusiastic response to his proposal, Don Bosco drew up their first rule of life. A source of the community’s good spirit, sense of humor, optimism and charity, Mary Mazzarello was a natural choice as the first superior, although she did all that she could to not accept the title. Eventually obedience won out and she was the first Mother of the young community at age thirty, albeit in an informal sense.
After much formation, struggles, the well-intentioned but misdirected advice of others, and difficulties with the townspeople (whose school for boys which they had raised money for and built was turned over to the Daughters for their work by Don Bosco), the day of their profession arrived. The fifteen young women, lead by Mary Mazzarello, knelt on the cold floor of the chapel of the new school and professed their vows as religious women in the presence of the Bishop of Acqui, their spiritual father Don Bosco, and Fr Pestarino, their immutable guide. July 31, 1872 was the birthday of the new religious family.
At age thirty-five, donned in a habit which she herself had designed, she was now Sister Mary Mazzarello. She and the fourteen other newly professed brides of Christ that were the founding community beamed with joy, and a sense of relief that their sentiment that God had called them into his vineyard was correct. Don Bosco looked on his new daughters as a happy father; indeed the mutual visions of the founders had come to pass.
The Daughters of Mary Help of Christians were officially founded.
Mary was asked by Don Bosco to temporarily fulfill the role of superior until he could call together a council of the sisters to for an election. At first she did not want the role, feeling that she was too ignorant and poorly educated to guide a newly founded religious congregation, but she yielded to Don Bosco’s pleas (and few people found it easy to resist him). For two years she was the “temporary” superior until the election took place in which she was permanently elected, much to her chagrin. “So the last shall be first and the first shall be last.” (Matthew 20:16)
As the feminine branch of the Salesian religious family, the Daughters of Mary Help of Christians sought to do for girls what the priests and brothers were doing in Turin for boys. They brought to their ministry the particular feminine genius which lends itself so well to nurturing, teaching, and encouraging the young along the way of salvation and personal growth; they became well-loved by the townsfolk.
After being elected Mother General of the Salesian Sisters, Mary Mazzarello felt that it was important that she and the other sisters have a good understanding of how to read and write; it was a skill which many of them had never had the opportunity to acquire. Mother Mazzarello would sit along side all of the other Sisters and learn with them – an example of humility and dedication, as well as an encouragement to the others in their struggles.
Her dedication to her sisters was not limited to their intellectual development alone. In every way she was an attentive mother, which is why to this day she is still fondly called “Mother Mazzarello”. When several of the sisters were headed to the South American missions, she accompanied them to their port of call in Genoa, Italy, and then took a boat to France so that she could visit the sisters there.
In Marseilles their ship broke down and had to be repaired. All of the passengers were forced to disembark while it was dry docked. Although the Sisters had been told that lodging had been prepared for them, there was a mix-up and they were left without beds to sleep on.
Mother Mazzarello was not one to let events such as that discourage her; eminently practical, she took the sheets that they brought with them stuffed them with straw, and made makeshift beds for all of them.
After a miserable night of sleep they all awoke, but Mother Mazzarello could not get up. A fever was ravaging her body and she was in terrible pain. The next morning, more out of a concern for worrying her already exhausted companions, she was able to get up, see the missionaries off, and then journey with her remaining Sisters to their house and orphanage in St. Cyr.
Once in St. Cyr she collapsed and was in bed for forty days; the diagnosis was pleurisy. Although she felt very ill, Mother Mazzarello did all that she could to be cheerful and alleviate the worry of her Sisters. Eventually she returned to Italy, even though the doctor advised against it. She said that she wanted to die in her own community.
She made her return journey in stages, as she did not want to push herself too much; she was painfully aware of her delicate condtion. Fortunately on one of her stops Don Bosco was near and they were able to meet for the last time.
As soon as Mother Mazzarello saw Don Bosco she smiled even more than she normally did; when she asked Don Bosco if she was going to die and he replied in the affirmative, her smile did not cease – here was a strong woman’s whose greatest consolation came from knowing that she was doing the Lord’s will.
Mother Mazzarello knew that after her death there would be another sister to replace her and that God would carry on the great Salesian work, as it was the work of Mary, the Help of Christians. As her daughter she had nothing to fear.
In early April Mary returned to Mornese. Her native air strengthened her and since she felt stronger she insisted on keeping the community schedule and doing her usual work. Unfortunately it was too much for her and she relapsed.
Near the end of April it seemed that death was coming for her and ever the caring and concerned mother, she was able to force out a few painful words, “I am afraid jealousies will crop up among you after my death, envy of a younger Sister who may be placed as Superior. Remember that Our Lady is Superior of this Congregation. Always obey the one who receives the task of leading. And, secondly, always help each other, but let your spiritual guidance be in the hands of the one appointed for that purpose.”
Regarding those who would enter the religious life she said, “The Sisters must not leave the world only to build up a new one of their own in the Congregation! And then they say they desire Christ! Dear Lord, if they only knew You as I know You now!”
Finally, in the pre-dawn hours of May 14th, 1881, Mother Mazzarello began her death agony. It was a terrible thing to witness, but ever resolute to praise God for all that he sent her, she began to force out a weak, yet sincere hymn to the Blessed Mother. It exhausted her and she fell into a deep sleep.
She was beatified on November 20, 1938 and canonized on June 24, 1951. A life of utter devotion to the will of God and love for others, Mary Mazzarello continues to serve as an example of dedication and holiness, a true mother in every way.
Today is Mary Mazzarello’s birthday! And in her honor….
St. Mary Mazzarello, who co-founded the Salesian Sisters with St. John Bosco was a very simple but wise woman. Simple in her ways, she taught her girls and the Sisters to love the Lord, to support each other, and be always cheerful. Here are some of her thoughts:
Support and help one another. Give each other encouragement.
Try to learn to love the Lord and overcome yourself.
I recommend that you work without selfish ambitions,
but only to please Jesus.
When the cross gets heavy, look at the crucifix and say,
“Jesus, You are my strength”
So, here we have it, Ladies and Gentlemen: Day Two of addressing stuff people wonder about Sisters.
Today’s Question: What was your greatest personal struggle during your journey to become a member?
Hmmm….this is hard. Before I entered, the hardest things for me to think of “giving up” were my family, (though later I realized I can still be close to them), and fashion – clothing and makeup. I know, it’s dumb, but I was 17, and these were things that were important to me…
After entering, though, I struggled with other things – mostly internal. I had to face my laziness, which I still struggle to overcome. Being in community definitely brings us face to face with our weakness and our sin. So I saw myself for who I really was, and it wasn’t always pretty! (Yikes – acutally, it’s still not always pretty…thanks Sisters for putting up with me and my imperfections!). While I saw my personal weakness pretty clearly, I learned to “not make peace with my shortcomings” (St. Mary Mazzarello) I realized that no one expects us to be perfect, but if people witness that we have seriously undertaken a path of conversion and growth, living with us can be more agreeable!
Time and time again, as I had to let go of myself and my ways, I remember asking, “What’s more important here? My way or Jesus’?” He won…and here I am. I’ve been in the convent for 22 years now, and I thank God that He gave me the original courage to answer His call and the daily courage to continue to be faithful!
St. Mary Mazzarello ceaselessly recommended joy to the early Sisters, and she still reminds us today to, “be always cheerful.” I think this is the secret to overcoming every struggle. That’s the beautiful part of living as a family…we can help one another to be joy-filled!
One of the characteristics of Salesian holiness is happiness. In fact, we know how often we see a child who has just received the Sacrament of Reconciliation, and we know how happy they are as they leave, to be in a state of grace. I know I have had this same sensation, and have heard others speak of it.
In his lifetime, St. John Bosco often encouraged the young people he worked with to be happy. There is something simple and child-like about joy and Jesus told us to become like little children. St. Dominic Savio, one of St. John Bosco’s pupils even began a group called, “The Society of Happiness.”
Here we can see a picture of Don Bosco, taken in the 1800′s. Go ahead and look at many other pictures from that era and you will see something different about “Johnny B” as some of the kids in our schools affectionately call him…yes, this Saint, this man of the 1800′s is there with a full smile on his face. It’s amazing to see and evident that the joy he nurtured in his heart evidently spilled over!
Mother Mazzarello, the Co-Foundress of the Salesian Sisters, together with Don Bosco is seen in very few photos. This is because she lived in a very rural and remote part of Italy, and unlike John Bosco, was not near the city. In both pictures we have, Mother Mazzarello was very sick, so her face lacks the smile that is common in so many of Don Bosco’s pictures. But what we do have are the words of our Mother. “Happiness,” she said, “is a sign of a heart that loves the Lord very much.”
Today, I would encourage all of us to think about and promote joy in ourselves and in others. It’s All Saints’ Day! Maybe we need to begin again; maybe it’s time to go to Confession, but God calls us to that immense joy that cannot be taken from us. Let’s not only nurture joy in ourselves, but by our good deeds and great kindness, promote joy in others.
Below, I’m sharing one of my all-time favorite videos. I’ve seen groups of adults crack up at little Ethan, and his happiness at the simplest things in life. My wish for you: that you can live this child-like simplicity and be fully happy…it is a sure road to holiness and a sign that you are in God’s grace.