God repays…

When I was a few years a Sister, I remember Fr. Ken Shaw, SDB, giving away the last turkey the Salesian priests had in their refrigerator to a woman who by all external appearances, was not really in need.  All the priests were fine with having something else for Thanksgiving, but I remember being shocked.  I asked him how and why he would do such a thing…  He told me we are never wrong to do what is charitable.  That thought has stayed with me for many years, and resurfaced when I received this lengthy, but well-worthwhile email.  A good friend of mine sent it to me…and it really made me think.  We never know the good that we do and how or when it will be returned to us.  In the end, though, the kindness we show often comes back to us.  We are never wrong to do what is charitable…

The man slowly looked up. This was a woman clearly accustomed to the finer things of life. Her coat was new. She looked like she had never missed a meal in her life. His first thought was that she wanted to make fun of him, like so many others had done before.

“Leave me alone,” he growled… To his amazement, the woman continued standing. She was smiling — her even white teeth displayed in dazzling rows.

“Are you hungry?” she asked.

“No,” he answered sarcastically. “I’ve just come from dining with the president. Now go away.”
The woman’s smile became even broader.

Suddenly the man felt a gentle hand under his arm. “What are you doing, lady?” the man asked angrily. “I said to leave me alone.

Just then a policeman came up. “Is there any problem, ma’am?” he asked..

“No problem here, officer,” the woman answered. “I’m just trying to get this man to his feet. Will you help me?”

The officer scratched his head. “That’s old Jack. He’s been a fixture around here for a couple of years. What do you want with him?”

“See that cafeteria over there?” she asked. “I’m going to get him something to eat and get him out of the cold for awhile.”

“Are you crazy, lady?” the homeless man resisted. “I don’t want to go in there!” Then he felt strong hands grab his other arm and lift him up.

“Let me go, officer. I didn’t do anything.”

“This is a good deal for you, Jack,” the officer answered. “Don’t blow it.”

Finally, and with some difficulty, the woman and the police officer got Jack into the cafeteria and sat him at a table in a remote corner. It was the middle of the morning, so most of the breakfast crowd had already left and the lunch bunch had not yet arrived.

The manager strode across the cafeteria and stood by his table. “What’s going on here, officer?” he asked.”What is all this, is this man in trouble?”

“This lady brought this man in here to be fed,” the policeman answered.
“Not in here!” the manager replied angrily. “Having a person like that here is bad for business.”

Old Jack smiled a toothless grin. “See, lady. I told you so. Now if you’ll let me go. I didn’t want to come here in the first place.”

The woman turned to the cafeteria manager and smiled. “Sir, are you familiar with Eddy andAssociates, the banking firm down the street?”

“Of course I am,” the manager answered impatiently. “They hold their weekly meetings in one of my banquet rooms.”

“And do you make a goodly amount of money providing food at these weekly meetings?”

“What business is that of yours?”

I, sir, am Penelope Eddy, president and CEO of the company.”

“Oh.”

The woman smiled again. “I thought that might make a difference.”

She glanced at the cop who was busy stifling a laugh. “Would you like to join us in a cup of coffee and a meal, officer?”

“No thanks, ma’am,” the officer replied. “I’m on duty.”

“Then, perhaps, a cup of coffee to go?”

“Yes, ma’am. That would be very nice.”

The cafeteria manager turned on his heel. “I’ll get your coffee for you right away, officer.”

The officer watched him walk away. “You certainly put him in his place,” he said. “That was not my intent… Believe it or not, I have a reason for all this.”

She sat down at the table across from her amazed dinner guest. She stared at him intently.

“Jack, do you remember me?” Old Jack searched her face with his old, rheumy eyes. “I think so — I mean you do look familiar.”

“I’m a little older perhaps,” she said. “Maybe I’ve even filled out more than in my younger days when you worked here, and I came through that very door, cold and hungry.”

“Ma’am?” the officer said questioningly. He couldn’t believe that such a magnificently turned out woman could ever have been hungry.

“I was just out of college,” the woman began. “I had come to the city looking for a job, but I couldn’t find anything. Finally I was down to my last few cents and had been kicked out of my apartment. I walked the streets for days. It was February and I was cold and nearly starving. I saw this place and walked in on the off chance that I could get something to eat.”

Jack lit up with a smile. “Now I remember,” he said. “I was behind the serving counter. You came up and asked me if you could work for something to eat. I said that it was against company policy.”

“I know,” the woman continued. “Then you made me the biggest roast beef sandwich that I had ever seen, gave me a cup of coffee, and told me to go over to a corner table and enjoy it. I was afraid that you would get into trouble. Then, when I looked over and saw you put the price of my food in the cash register, I knew then that everything would be all right.”

“So you started your own business?” Old Jack said.

“I got a job that very afternoon. I worked my way up. Eventually I started my own business that, with the help of God, prospered.” She opened her purse and pulled out a business card. “When you are finished here, I want you to pay a visit to a Mr. Lyons. He’s the personnel director of my company. I’ll go talk to him now and I’m certain he’ll find something for you to do around the office.”

She smiled. “I think he might even find the funds to give you a little advance so that you can buy some clothes and get a place to live until you get on your feet. If you ever need anything, my door is always open to you.”

There were tears in the old man’s eyes. “How can I ever thank you?” he asked.

“Don’t thank me,” the woman answered. “To God goes the glory. Thank Jesus… He led me to you.”

Outside the cafeteria, the officer and the woman paused at the entrance before going their separate ways. “Thank you for all your help, officer,” she said.

“On the contrary, Ms. Eddy,” he answered. “Thank you. I saw a miracle today, something that I will never forget. And…And thank you for the coffee.”

If you have missed knowing me, you have missed nothing.
If you have missed some of my emails, you might have missed a laugh.
But, if you have missed knowing my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, you have missed everything in the world.

So, today, do something for someone in need.  Reach out your hand and your heart to someone, and regardless of whether or not you understand how, know that God will adequately repay you!

O Holy Night (And Gifts that are Given)

A friend of mine sent this to me.  It is one of my favorite songs, and I especially love when Sr. Suzanne Dauwalter sings it.  Sr. Suzanne is our Provincial Economer, and her voice is simply God’s gift.  She has never been trained, but her voice has the character and quality of these women, who have had years of training, I’m sure.  Sr. Suzanne will often sing at our events in the province.  She is usually very nervous before singing, and often downplays the great gift that has been given to her…but her willingness to share it and to sing for us and to praise God is always there.

As we come to the end of Advent, and the beginning of the amazing season of Christmas, I cannot help but thank God for His many gifts.  He is lavish in what He has given to me, and in what He has shared with others.  During this time, I hope that you will be able to sit and recognize His gifts to you, and to think about how you can use these gifts to further His glory and to help those around you.

This Christmas, on this “Holy Night,” think about these talents, these gifts, and give them back.  Share them with the people around you – your loved ones, friends, and neighbors.  You may think little of what you have received, but I can guarantee that what you share will benefit those who are recipients.

“Twittering” at NCCYM…

Yep, it really happened…  No, I’m not kidding – I’m thinking of investing in one of these t-shirts.  Have you seen them?big_deal  Really, I have to thank my friend Alicia for introducing me to this phrase at all, but now, I can actually say, in my great humility…(*ahem…quit laughing those of  you who know me well)…that I’m feeling like, “I’m kind of a big deal!” 

Here’s the whole story:  The other day, I get an email asking if I know Anne Marie Cribbins.  Yes, I write back…thinking she is either very sick or in need of help, or some tragedy has befallen her or something.  Well, it turns out, Anne Marie suggested me for a project, one I’m thrilled to be part of.  Here’s the plan – and if  you love “techie” stuff, this is right up your alley…

I will be one of a few people “Twittering” about the National Conference of Catholic Youth Ministers (NCCYM) to take place in Cleveland in December.  Twitter is a cool site.  You can update what you are doing in just a few words - from your cell (yes, you can post to a blog from a cell!!!) or your computer.  It’s pretty incredible.  So as I experience the NCCYM, I can just give short feedback or impressions…share thoughts about talks, inspirations, etc. 

Now, here’s the cool part.  There is a whole set of people who will be Twittering about the NCCYM at this site:  http://www.nccymmicroblog.2smallcoins.org/  We’re giving our “two small coins” as input.  I hope the Lord realizes it’s all I have!

He understands…He will always understand…just run to Him!

A very good friend of mine, who is a Sister, and was my superior for some time, Sr. Florine Lagace, FMA, sent me this video.  At first, I was wondering why she would send me the apparent story of a boy who is growing up in a rural town.  After just a minute or so, though, I understood.
You see, a big part of being Salesian is being able to help young people come to know and love God more…to be “God with skin on” for them, to represent in living flesh the deep, unconditional and eternal love that God has for each and every young person.  Besides this, though is the other side of the coin…that is, seeing that God is reaching out to us in the young.  Knowing God dwells in the young we serve and that in and through them, we are preparing ourselves for a future life with Him forever.
So this video that was sent to me is a reminder … a reminder that what Jesus referred to “out of the mouths of babes” (Matt.  21:16) is a reality.  Let’s learn from the simple faith of this young boy.  Let’s take courage from his steadfast trust in God, in the fact that God, too, suffered loss at the death of His only Son, and let’s “throw ourselves” into the arms of our Father who loves us and knows our needs.
more about “Meet Logan, The Sky Angel Cowboy“, posted with vodpod

Catholic means open to the whole world

This is a definition I have heard from childhood.  I’m a “cradle Catholic,” baptized early in life…and I’ve seen Catholic masses enculturated in so many forms that it’s dizzying, but always, the same Lord is made present, and the same basic truths are celebrated.  It’s beautiful, and it’s touching.

Today, however, I was struck by this reality in a new way.  Yes, we are Salesian Sisters, and YES, we are Catholic…(open to the whole world) because today, in a very brief voting session, our leadership elected Mother Yvonne, of French origin, for the first time in our 136 year history!

So today, we show that we are an international congregation not only in name, but also in the leadership that represents us, and that for us, represents the presence of Mary.  If you have time today, and you think of it, maybe you would say a prayer for Mother Yvonne.  (Becoming a Mother to 14,000 daughters overnight may, in fact, be a bit “daunting.”)

If you are interested, the whole story is here.

May God bless Mother Yvonne, and may her Sisters, as Daughters of Mary Help of Christians, be open to her leadership, and her voice as the mediation of God, and the living presence of Mary who walks among us!

St. Teresa of Ávila

Today is a big day for the Daughters of Mary Help of Christians.  We celebrate the feast of our patroness, St. Teresa of Ávila!  In particular, we turn to her to ask her intercession as we begin the novena which will prepare us for the election of our new Mother General.  Please join us in prayer.  You can say the prayer we have been saying to prepare for our whole General Chapter, or make one up yourself – here is our prayer:

Holy Mary, Mother of God,
you gave the world its true light, Jesus, your Son, the Son of God.
You abandoned yourself completely to God’s call
and thus became a wellspring of the goodness which flows forth from Him.
Show us Jesus, lead us to Him.
Help us to know and love Him,
so that we, too, can become capable of true love,
and be fountains of living water, in the midst of a thirsting world.
Amen.

(written by Pope Benedict XVI)

Besides preparing for our election on the 24th of this month, and beginning that novena, St. Teresa is special to the Salesian Sisters because she was a woman who really could read the signs of her times, and was able to hear God’s urgings.  Here are some of my favorite things she said or wrote:

Just as we cannot stop the movement of the heavens, revolving as they do with such speed, so we cannot restrain our thought.
Fourth Mansion – Ch. 1

 How true is this?  So often, we say, “Let’s quiet our minds and open ourselves to the presence of God.”  I think St. Teresa was in touch with the impossibility of quieting our thoughts, and she was able to realize that our minds are more like spectators, so when I hear this phrase, I like to picture myself sitting at the edge of a stream, as life moves on, to see God present – the water making the stream flow…

We cannot know whether we love God, although there may be strong reason for thinking so; but there can be no doubt about whether we love our neighbor or not. Be sure that, in proportion as you advance in fraternal charity, you are increasing your love of God.
Fifth Mansion Ch. III

 I can still hear Sr. Barbara Jane in the first grade saying “Actions speak louder than words.”  So true – let’s love one another , especially those it is most difficult to love, so our love for God will be EVIDENT!

Let nothing disturb thee; Let nothing dismay thee; All thing pass; God never changes. Patience attains All that it strives for. He who has God Finds he lacks nothing: God alone suffices.

 How true – in the end…for every religious, and for every human being, God alone must suffice, because He is our only and greatest prize.  What we often forget is that in searching for Him, we often go astray, thinking one thing or another will bring us true happiness, but we all know that the feeling of longing returns until we belong totally to Him and can be found only on Him – this, friends, is true happiness!  (And why I think some of the people I know who could absolutely LIGHT THE WORLD ON FIRE with their happiness belong totally to HIM!)

My Redeemer Lives

This is a beautiful thought for a Sunday. God has done so very much for us, let’s be grateful!

more about “My Redeemer Lives“, posted with vodpod

 

Welcome to the Family!

I celebrate with Our Lady of the Rosary today, as our Sisters welcome six new postulants.  These young women are an inspiration to so many others who are searching for God’s call, but perhaps fear answering Him.  I ask you to join me in praying for those who you see here ~ the brave souls who stood up and said, “I will see what it means to follow Christ more closely…” and also, I ask you to remember in your prayers those who are unsure or afraid.  Pray that they can have light and courage to clearly know God’s will and to follow it!

How often we complain…

Today, I got this email.  It was titled, “the best email ever”.  I don’t know if it is the best or the worst or what, really…but I know one thing ~ it made me reflect on my life, on my hot meals, on my warm, comfortable bed….

If  you think you are having a hard time then  just look at  them

If  you think your salary is low, how about  her?

If  you think you don’t have many  friends…


When  you feel like giving up, think of this  man

If  you think you suffer in life, do you suffer as  much as he does?

If  you complain about your transport system, how  about them?

If  your society is unfair to you, how about  her?

I don’t know about you, but these pictures made me think quite a bit.  They make me reflect on how I accept what I have  ~ my attitude toward all that is given me.  My thoughts went to those things we say, like “people are starving in Africa…” but the truth is that so much of humanity is worse off than you or I…as we sit at our computers, and get ready for a meal or for a night’s sleep in a comfortable bed.  Some people say it’s stupid to compare yourself with others, but sometimes, I really think it gives us a sense of what we have, and how lucky we are.

Smile! – (anyway, it makes you look better…)

One of the most attractive aspects of our Salesian life is the joy that it brings, the joy that is contagious!  I often thank God for this aspect of our spirituality.  Of course, this joy comes from various sources – from the community life we share, from our relationship with Jesus, from knowing that you are doing your best to do His will… 

Sometimes, I want to share that joy – I want to spread it around with those I come in contact with on a dailyfound online.  They are not only nice, but offer quite a variety ~ of course my favorite is the one with the halo!

Have you ever been on phatmass?  Now, there’s a set of smiley faces!  I hardly know which one to choose, and sometimes even just post them for fun…

But in truth, besides being part of our spirituality, and being great,  if you look at many before and after photos, you will see that usually the “after” picture is one of a person with a full smile.  They say that smiling takes fewer muscles than frowning.  I think it also does a world of good for your overall image.  So no matter who you are…smile!

 

See the difference a smile makes?

See the difference a smile makes?

One of my favorite stories is of Don Bosco, telling a young Salesian to look in the mirror and practice smiling.  In fact, though smiling was not “in fasion” for pictures taken in the late 1800’s, most of the pictures we have of Don Bosco show his smiling face!  So, today, take a minute, look in the mirror, and “put on a happy face!