God repays…

When I was a few years a Sister, I remember Fr. Ken Shaw, SDB, giving away the last turkey the Salesian priests had in their refrigerator to a woman who by all external appearances, was not really in need.  All the priests were fine with having something else for Thanksgiving, but I remember being shocked.  I asked him how and why he would do such a thing…  He told me we are never wrong to do what is charitable.  That thought has stayed with me for many years, and resurfaced when I received this lengthy, but well-worthwhile email.  A good friend of mine sent it to me…and it really made me think.  We never know the good that we do and how or when it will be returned to us.  In the end, though, the kindness we show often comes back to us.  We are never wrong to do what is charitable…

The man slowly looked up. This was a woman clearly accustomed to the finer things of life. Her coat was new. She looked like she had never missed a meal in her life. His first thought was that she wanted to make fun of him, like so many others had done before.

“Leave me alone,” he growled… To his amazement, the woman continued standing. She was smiling — her even white teeth displayed in dazzling rows.

“Are you hungry?” she asked.

“No,” he answered sarcastically. “I’ve just come from dining with the president. Now go away.”
The woman’s smile became even broader.

Suddenly the man felt a gentle hand under his arm. “What are you doing, lady?” the man asked angrily. “I said to leave me alone.

Just then a policeman came up. “Is there any problem, ma’am?” he asked..

“No problem here, officer,” the woman answered. “I’m just trying to get this man to his feet. Will you help me?”

The officer scratched his head. “That’s old Jack. He’s been a fixture around here for a couple of years. What do you want with him?”

“See that cafeteria over there?” she asked. “I’m going to get him something to eat and get him out of the cold for awhile.”

“Are you crazy, lady?” the homeless man resisted. “I don’t want to go in there!” Then he felt strong hands grab his other arm and lift him up.

“Let me go, officer. I didn’t do anything.”

“This is a good deal for you, Jack,” the officer answered. “Don’t blow it.”

Finally, and with some difficulty, the woman and the police officer got Jack into the cafeteria and sat him at a table in a remote corner. It was the middle of the morning, so most of the breakfast crowd had already left and the lunch bunch had not yet arrived.

The manager strode across the cafeteria and stood by his table. “What’s going on here, officer?” he asked.”What is all this, is this man in trouble?”

“This lady brought this man in here to be fed,” the policeman answered.
“Not in here!” the manager replied angrily. “Having a person like that here is bad for business.”

Old Jack smiled a toothless grin. “See, lady. I told you so. Now if you’ll let me go. I didn’t want to come here in the first place.”

The woman turned to the cafeteria manager and smiled. “Sir, are you familiar with Eddy andAssociates, the banking firm down the street?”

“Of course I am,” the manager answered impatiently. “They hold their weekly meetings in one of my banquet rooms.”

“And do you make a goodly amount of money providing food at these weekly meetings?”

“What business is that of yours?”

I, sir, am Penelope Eddy, president and CEO of the company.”

“Oh.”

The woman smiled again. “I thought that might make a difference.”

She glanced at the cop who was busy stifling a laugh. “Would you like to join us in a cup of coffee and a meal, officer?”

“No thanks, ma’am,” the officer replied. “I’m on duty.”

“Then, perhaps, a cup of coffee to go?”

“Yes, ma’am. That would be very nice.”

The cafeteria manager turned on his heel. “I’ll get your coffee for you right away, officer.”

The officer watched him walk away. “You certainly put him in his place,” he said. “That was not my intent… Believe it or not, I have a reason for all this.”

She sat down at the table across from her amazed dinner guest. She stared at him intently.

“Jack, do you remember me?” Old Jack searched her face with his old, rheumy eyes. “I think so — I mean you do look familiar.”

“I’m a little older perhaps,” she said. “Maybe I’ve even filled out more than in my younger days when you worked here, and I came through that very door, cold and hungry.”

“Ma’am?” the officer said questioningly. He couldn’t believe that such a magnificently turned out woman could ever have been hungry.

“I was just out of college,” the woman began. “I had come to the city looking for a job, but I couldn’t find anything. Finally I was down to my last few cents and had been kicked out of my apartment. I walked the streets for days. It was February and I was cold and nearly starving. I saw this place and walked in on the off chance that I could get something to eat.”

Jack lit up with a smile. “Now I remember,” he said. “I was behind the serving counter. You came up and asked me if you could work for something to eat. I said that it was against company policy.”

“I know,” the woman continued. “Then you made me the biggest roast beef sandwich that I had ever seen, gave me a cup of coffee, and told me to go over to a corner table and enjoy it. I was afraid that you would get into trouble. Then, when I looked over and saw you put the price of my food in the cash register, I knew then that everything would be all right.”

“So you started your own business?” Old Jack said.

“I got a job that very afternoon. I worked my way up. Eventually I started my own business that, with the help of God, prospered.” She opened her purse and pulled out a business card. “When you are finished here, I want you to pay a visit to a Mr. Lyons. He’s the personnel director of my company. I’ll go talk to him now and I’m certain he’ll find something for you to do around the office.”

She smiled. “I think he might even find the funds to give you a little advance so that you can buy some clothes and get a place to live until you get on your feet. If you ever need anything, my door is always open to you.”

There were tears in the old man’s eyes. “How can I ever thank you?” he asked.

“Don’t thank me,” the woman answered. “To God goes the glory. Thank Jesus… He led me to you.”

Outside the cafeteria, the officer and the woman paused at the entrance before going their separate ways. “Thank you for all your help, officer,” she said.

“On the contrary, Ms. Eddy,” he answered. “Thank you. I saw a miracle today, something that I will never forget. And…And thank you for the coffee.”

If you have missed knowing me, you have missed nothing.
If you have missed some of my emails, you might have missed a laugh.
But, if you have missed knowing my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, you have missed everything in the world.

So, today, do something for someone in need.  Reach out your hand and your heart to someone, and regardless of whether or not you understand how, know that God will adequately repay you!

Funerals, and why Don Bosco said, “A piece of heaven fixes everything.”

 There is something powerful about gathering as a family after a loss.  At a funeral mass today, as we walked by the coffin, there was no denying the death that had been undergone, the finality of the loss, or the silent suffering of a family that has said goodbye to a significant member.

At the funeral for my friend’s father, the words she spoke last night came to mind.  “He was a good and holy man, who lived a life that was faithful and true,” she said.  She told us Sisters how after his wife left him for someone else, he cared for the kids, and never even thought of remarrying.  His vows were for life.  What a beautiful example of fidelity in marriage.  And, she said, “He was also faithful to God,” bringing those children to weekly mass.  Apparently, this man worked three jobs, and returning after 2 a.m., he brought the kids to weekly Mass, just the same.

In our world which is so affected by a lack of fidelity – less that 20% of Catholics practice their religion, we are told, and in a time when divorce prevails – some 50% of those who are married today will be divorced – it is impressive to see someone who was so upright in remaining faithful to both human and divine commitments.  What a beautiful message to his children and grandchildren this man sent.  His silent refusal to go along and “move on” without fulfilling his first promise speaks loudly to me of what is meant when we say we will be “true to death”.  His witness of following the third Commandment, even though he could easily have excused himself for exhaustion, speaks of really putting God first!

What else REALLY matters?One of my favorite sayings of Don Bosco is, “A piece of heaven fixes everything.”  I love that saying because in so many ways, it rings true in my life….it forces me to ask, “What is really important?”  “What really matters?”  “In the end, when I stand before God, will this truly be important?”  I wish I had known my friend’s dad personally.  I’d like to thank him for making this all so real, for making me realize how little things are irrelevant when we think of our eternity with God.

A friend of mine teases me, saying I often reply, “Whatever.”  I guess that is because in my childhood, my parents always reminded us that what most preterbs us is frequently of little or no consequence.  So, Don Bosco and Joe and RoseMary Clair had a lot in common.   They all looked much more at the big picture and the eternal importance of so many very little things.

Today, I promise to recall what is really important, and to focus on that so as to grow closer to God.  After a few years – 80 or so – that is all that will truly matter!

He understands…He will always understand…just run to Him!

A very good friend of mine, who is a Sister, and was my superior for some time, Sr. Florine Lagace, FMA, sent me this video.  At first, I was wondering why she would send me the apparent story of a boy who is growing up in a rural town.  After just a minute or so, though, I understood.
You see, a big part of being Salesian is being able to help young people come to know and love God more…to be “God with skin on” for them, to represent in living flesh the deep, unconditional and eternal love that God has for each and every young person.  Besides this, though is the other side of the coin…that is, seeing that God is reaching out to us in the young.  Knowing God dwells in the young we serve and that in and through them, we are preparing ourselves for a future life with Him forever.
So this video that was sent to me is a reminder … a reminder that what Jesus referred to “out of the mouths of babes” (Matt.  21:16) is a reality.  Let’s learn from the simple faith of this young boy.  Let’s take courage from his steadfast trust in God, in the fact that God, too, suffered loss at the death of His only Son, and let’s “throw ourselves” into the arms of our Father who loves us and knows our needs.
more about “Meet Logan, The Sky Angel Cowboy“, posted with vodpod

Catholic means open to the whole world

This is a definition I have heard from childhood.  I’m a “cradle Catholic,” baptized early in life…and I’ve seen Catholic masses enculturated in so many forms that it’s dizzying, but always, the same Lord is made present, and the same basic truths are celebrated.  It’s beautiful, and it’s touching.

Today, however, I was struck by this reality in a new way.  Yes, we are Salesian Sisters, and YES, we are Catholic…(open to the whole world) because today, in a very brief voting session, our leadership elected Mother Yvonne, of French origin, for the first time in our 136 year history!

So today, we show that we are an international congregation not only in name, but also in the leadership that represents us, and that for us, represents the presence of Mary.  If you have time today, and you think of it, maybe you would say a prayer for Mother Yvonne.  (Becoming a Mother to 14,000 daughters overnight may, in fact, be a bit “daunting.”)

If you are interested, the whole story is here.

May God bless Mother Yvonne, and may her Sisters, as Daughters of Mary Help of Christians, be open to her leadership, and her voice as the mediation of God, and the living presence of Mary who walks among us!

Changes…conversions…and a future Sister.

Here is an interesting news piece that a Salesian priest, Fr. Mike sent to me today…

Hollywood screenwriter returns to Cleveland, turns life over to GodCLEVELAND (CNS) — The Gospel of Luke’s prodigal son has nothing on Joe Eszterhas. A self-described “Hollywood animal,” Eszterhas is best known for writing such adult-themed thrillers as “Basic Instinct” and “Jagged Edge.” He is a guy who seemed to live his earlier life as if the seven deadly sins were a personal to-do list. But then Eszterhas found God. Or as Eszterhas writes in his latest memoir, “Crossbearer,” God found him. Today, the man who once was the center of attention at exclusive Hollywood restaurants, enjoys the easygoing community spirit of sharing a meal with his wife, Naomi, and the couple’s four sons at a Lenten fish fry at Holy Angels Parish, in suburban Bainbridge, where he often carries the cross at Mass. A screenwriter who describes his younger self as arrogant and full of hubris now reads the works of Trappist Father Thomas Merton and Dutch-born Father Henri Nouwen for spiritual guidance. Days that once started and ended with cigarettes and gin, now are filled with prayer and quiet walks in nature.

 

 

Now, without saying too much, let’s just say that every life has its times of conversion…and every person lives their “growing pains” in different ways, but I can relate to this change of heart.  God works in the life of each person.  And no, nuns are NOT born with veils on their heads and rosaries in their hands.  My favorite story is of a Sister who is a friend of mine who says before she entered, she was almost kicked out of a bar one night when she had had a few beers and began to dance on the table!

There are times when I wonder, “God, how can you do your work with such plain and simple instruments?” And then, like St. Paul, I realize that is JUST why He chose me – so that HIS work would be evident.  After all, what good could I potentially do?  So God is making His presence obvious by purposely choosing a weak instrument.  (I hope all those who wonder whether or not God is calling them to religious life reread and meditate on that sentence, because often we think we are not worthy, and we are not!)

Mother Teresa of Calcutta wanted to be a pencil in the hand of God.  There was an early Salesian who told Don Bosco he wanted to be like a handkerchief in his hands.  My hope is to be that available, to be that malleable, so that God can do all the good that is possible with this Kleenex!

Religion and Reason

I was looking through a variety of blogs the other day…and found some that are extremely interesting.  One of my personal favorites is a blog by one of our young women in formation, Brittany Harrison.  You can see her blog here.  I love to read the stuff she comes up with, and her insights into life ~ especially into Salesian life.  I’m a person who lives our spirituality and loves our spirituality, but I don’t often reflect too much on it…I’m usually on my way out the door to see the kids!  I guess this blog and my work in vocations has taught me to reflect on and articulate some of the beauty of Salesian life and living the Preventive System.

So the other day, I saw a blog about religion – Unfortunately, I don’t remember the name if it, and in fact, the blog featured some comments on a new movie that has come out in the US – it’s called “Religiulous”.  Here I won’t include a clip or a reference, because I really was not just disheartened by what I saw, but very much frightened by it.  It has become apparent to me that our society has lost a sense of wonder.  I have never considered myself a religious fanatic.  (I know, that’s pretty funny to hear coming from a nun!)  Though I have dedicated my life to Christ, I hold very tightly to human reason, and believe that using this reason, we can arrive at the fact that there is a being who is more powerful than us.

So I was concerned about the state of humanity, especially the agnosticism, or maybe even the indifference to God I see growing in our country.  I was intrigued, today, when I happened upon a video on a site that a Sister friend of mine recommended, www.TED.com.  The piece below shows the intellectual humility of A.J. Jacobs, a man who lived a year following every Bible rule he could find.  It’s twenty minutes long, but well worth your time:

 

I was impressed by many things, but some of the things I liked most were his comparison of the Bible to Wikipedia – since it was written over time, and with the contribution of so many authors.  I think of all the things he said, especially this remains with me:

“I couldn’t believe how much my behavior changed my thoughts…I almost pretended to be a better person and I became a little bit of a better person.  I had always thought you change your mind and you change your behavior, but it’s often the other way around. You change your behavior and you change your mind….the Bible actually talks about cognitive psychology (very primitive cognitive psychology) in the Proverbs, it says that if you smile, you will become happier, which, as we know, is actually true.”

This fact made me reflect on some of the key tenets of our Salesian Preventive System ~ like the belief that every young person wants to be good, and a desire to bring out the goodness within the young by helping them to grow closer to Christ.  This is achieved mostly by involving them in the good work that the Salesians undertake througout the world in favor of poor youth.

So, yes, humanity is good, and by doing kind acts and striving to BE good, we can change our ATTITUDES.  Begin, today, with me, to give humanity a new face, to see the good by being good; to recognize the love in our families by loving whole-heartedly.